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Mother’s Day

Here is the article I wrote for the cover of today’s (Mother’s Day) bulletin.

In the Church today we celebrate the Sixth Sunday of Easter but we also recognize today as Mother’s Day.  We take time each year on the second Sunday in May to honor our mothers.  On the third Sunday in June we will celebrate Father’s Day.  Somehow Mother’s Day gets a lot of attention.

Children may make mom “breakfast in bed” or give their mothers something they made in school.  Adults may buy mom a gift, flowers, or take mom out for a meal.  I think making sure mom doesn’t have to prepare meals that day is a way of recognizing that we appreciate all the meals they have prepared for us.

Of course, these are ways we honor our mothers who are still living.  But we can also remember our mothers who have passed to the eternal kingdom.  My own mother passed away three years ago.  She died the Sunday before Mother’s Day, which made for a difficult Mother’s Day that year.

Just because our mothers have passed doesn’t mean we can’t honor them anymore.  We can remember the good things they have done for us and trust in the promise of Jesus that they have received the gift of eternal life.  For our mothers who have died, we honoring them by still remembering them on this day.

Of course, as Catholics we have another mother that we honor during the month of May.  The Virgin Mary was the mother of Jesus and in John 19:25-27 Jesus gives Mary to us as Mother of the Church.

As Mother of the Church, Mary does the same for us as our earthly mothers.  Mary watches over us and prays to her son Jesus for us.  Our mothers care for us and pray for us.

Mary (with Joseph) is the one who made sure that her son Jesus learned all the religious customs of the faith.  Often, it is our mothers who make sure we complete our sacraments and learn about our faith.

It was Mary at the Wedding Feast of Cana who believed in her son.  They had run out of wine and she sent them to her (adult) son Jesus.  She knew he could take of it.  She didn’t know how, simply saying “Do whatever he tells you.”  When we are little, we listen to our mothers.  As we grow into adulthood, we become more independent.  Our mothers (and fathers) let us make decisions for ourselves.  I suspect for our parents it is both difficult to let our children make decisions for themselves as adults and yet a great reward when they make good decisions.

To all our mothers, thank you!!!

Peace, Fr. Jeff

“The Future Church”

I put the title of this article in quotations because it is not actually my title.  It is the title of a talk I heard today by John L. Allen, Jr. and it is also the title of his book on the same subject.  The talk was given at our annual diocesan Ministerium and was a continuation of a talk he gave last year.  The book discusses ten trends affecting the Catholic Church in the 21st Century.  Last year he covered four of the trends and discussed some of the remaining trends today.  Here I offer a few highlights.  If you want more information I provide the full citation for the book below.

The first trend he discussed today was actually #3 in the book, Islam.  I wish to be clear here the discussion was not about Islam and terrorism.  John Allen’s point was that 25% of the people in the world belong to the Islamic religion and that makes it a major world player.  Of course, he recognizes the 9-11 attacks are a major factor in how Islam is viewed but he also stressed that Pope Benedict’s speech at Regensburg in 2006 had a major effect on Catholic Muslim relations.

Then John Allen moved to Trend #4 – The New Demography.  The point of concern here is the aging population.  He referred to it as “The Grayby Boom” because of the increasing percentage of senior citizens in our pews.  Generally, when people are discussing how the average age of our congregations is increasing, the discussion revolves around the fact that younger people are not coming to church much, if at all.  That is true and in the “New Evangelization” we need to work on inviting these younger families into our churches.  But even if everyone was coming to church, the average age of our parishioners would still be increasing because people are living longer and the younger generations are not having as many children.  This effects what ministries are needed and when to offer them.  Working families prefer evening activities but the retirees often prefer daytime activities.  We need to provide ministry to both groups at times that work for them.

Next came Trend #7 – Globalization.  The world we live in is constantly changing and we need to make our faith relevant in it.  If we don’t help people see how faith is still relevant in our world today, then why should we expect them to care about our faith?  For example he spoke of the “Vocation of the Business Leader” released last year by the Pontifical Council for Peace and Justice on how our faith influences our work in business.

Then he talked about Trend #10 – Pentecostalism.  Pentecostalism is the most rapidly growing religion today.  In part, they are growing because they do better than us in some areas.  Sometimes they do a better job of pastoral care.  They do a better job of getting all parishioners involved.  They make morality a priority that sometimes we don’t like to talk about (but the Catholic Church has a lot to say about).  We need to be aware of what attracts people to churches.  However, we must not engage in a popularity contest.  We are not called to proclaim the message that people want to hear.  We are called to proclaim the truth that Jesus offers.  The question we need to answer is how best to proclaim Jesus’ message in the world today.

In that we must remember that we are not to be evangelized by the popular culture today.  Rather, we are called to evangelize the culture according to the principles of our faith. In other words, we must shape society instead of letting it shape us.

To conclude, John Allen offered a new trend that he sees after the book was published in 2009.  Trend #11 is Religious Freedom.  When you hear this, I suspect that the first thing that might come to mind for Americans is the current controversy over the health care mandates.  John Allen did speak about that but he spoke more about the global situation of religious persecution.  In the United States, if you offend someone with your religious views, the worst that might happen is you get sued.  In many countries, your religious views may get you executed.  He said that every hour 17 people are martyred for their religious views today.  Where is the freedom of religion?

These are just a few of the highlights of what I heard today.  The question for us think about is how these ideas affect our ministry.  What do you think?

Peace,

Fr. Jeff

John L. Allen, Jr.The Future Church: How Ten Trends Are Revolutionizing the Catholic Church, Doubleday:New York 2009.

Remain in Me

In this Sunday’s (May 6, 2012) Gospel, Jesus proclaims “I am the vine, you are the branches” and He calls us to “remain in him.”

What do we do to remain in Jesus?

It begins with coming to Mass but it does not end there.  To ‘remain in Jesus’ requires more than an hour a week.  For me, remaining in Jesus involves a desire to constantly be aware of His presence in our lives.  It is to live with an attitude of gratitude acknowledging the good things that God has done for us.

For me, remaining in Jesus also means that we seek to learn more about what Jesus teaches, how He calls us to live, and to strive to deepen our relationship with Jesus.  Some people seem content just to take a minimalist approach with Jesus.  They want to do just enough to get by.

For me, to be a minimalist is not enough, meaning if you desire is to do just enough, then you aren’t doing enough.  I want to deepen my own relationship with Jesus.  Some of how I do this is my ministry.  Sometimes just seeing the faith of other people (especially in difficult moments) inspires me in my own faith.  Preparing homilies helps be grow in my own faith.  For instance, for a typical Sunday homily, I began reflecting on the readings on the previous Sunday afternoon.  I spent time reflecting on the readings everyday and look at commentaries written by biblical scholars to find what God is saying to you and me.

I also like to read and most of what I read is theology magazines and books.  When people hear that I like to read theology material, they sometimes ask if I ever read for fun.  Occasionally I do read a mystery or spy novel for fun but reading theology is relaxing and enjoyable for me.  From reading, I also grow in my own faith.  Of course, it also helps me in my ministry.  I spent seven years in seminary, six of it in full-time studies.  I still feel like I just know the time of the iceberg so I want to learn more.  I read theology not because I have to but because I want to.

However, I know reading isn’t for everyone.  What do you do to remain in Jesus?

Peace,

Fr. Jeff

 

Annual Diocesan Evangelization and Stewardship Day

For several years the Diocese of Rochester has held an annual Stewardship day with a featured speaker.  This year it was a combined theme of Evangelization and Stewardship with a guest speaker.  The New Evangelization calls us to learn more about our faith.  Our understanding of how our call to be good Christian Disciples should include an understanding of stewardship.  To be a good steward is to recognize the gifts God has given us and how we are called to use these gifts to help other people (Matthew 10:8 – “Without cost you have received; without cost you are to give.”)

Sr. Donna Ciangio, O.P. spoke of the importance of knowing who we are and what we are called to be.  If we seek to invite others to join our church and/or become active participants, we need to know what we are inviting them to.  The most basic question is ‘what is our mission?’

Here is where a mission statement can be helpful.  Ultimately, our mission to help people develop and deepen their relationship with Jesus.  We need to think in terms of how our ministries fit our mission.  If we don’t have a mission statement, how do we agree on what is the point of our ministry?  That is the point of a mission statement.

Sr. Donna spoke of three types of parishioners, those who are engaged in parish activities, those not engaged, and those who are actively disengaged.  People in all three categories attend church.  Many of them may attend parish events.  When we use the term “engaged”, we are referring to those who don’t just show up at Mass and church events but are part of helping making the events happen and/or see it as an opportunity to deepen our own relationship with Jesus.

Sr. Donna also spoke of the importance of a ‘Welcome Ministry’ to help the people feel welcomed and help them find a place for themselves in the parish.  We need to help them see how our faith is relevant today and how we can put our faith into practice.  I think back to an online conference I attended a few years ago.  There it was said that we help people see how our faith is still relevant today and enter in to a deeper relationship with Jesus.  Then in turn these people will not simply be willing to help with parish activities but will actually want to live and share their faith.

What does our Catholic faith mean to you?  Does our faith motivate you to share it with others?  What do you need to do to deepen your personal relationship with Jesus?

Peace,

Fr. Jeff

 

A Day in Two Places

Yesterday I spent time both at Immaculate Conception Church and Our Lady of the Lakes at St. Januarius’ Church.

I went to Immaculate Conception where I will become the pastor on June 26th to met with the current pastor and take a tour of the facilities.  It began with lunch with Fr. Leo and Sr. Edna and conversation about the parish.  After lunch, Fr. Leo gave me a tour of the church, office, school, and rectory.

While I was there for a little over two and a half hours, this is really just the beginning of getting to know the parish and the staff.  It will take a while for me to get to know the parish and parishioners.  It is going to take a lot of listening on my part to get to know the parish.  I will need to listen to the parishioners, the committees, and the staff.  Most importantly, I have to listen to God.  For me, being a pastor isn’t about getting my way.  It is about leading the parish according to God’s Will.  That means listening to everyone involved, praying in conversation with God, and then making a decision that seeks to help all involved grow in their relationship with God.  All this being said, from the tour and the conversation, I continue to believe that this is where God is leading me.

That was my afternoon.  From there I drove to St. Januarius’ Church in Naples for the Sacrament of Confirmation for the children of Our Lady of the Lakes.  While I did concelebrate for the Mass, I did not need to be there but I chose to be there to show my support for the children that were receiving Confirmation.  Being a priest means helping the people deepen their relationship with our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ.  Being there for the important moments like the Sacraments is a vital part of that.  Now, I can’t be everywhere.  Part of being a good pastor will be to set priorities.

Do you rely on God to help you set priorities in your own life?  We need to look beyond our own wants and needs and look at the world with eyes of faith.

Peace,

Fr. Jeff

 

Between the Old and the New

Well, it has been almost a month now since I received the phone call from Bishop Clark appointing me as the pastor of Immaculate Conception Church in Ithaca on June 26th.  The response expressed from my current assignment at Our Lady of the Lakes has been offering congratulations to me but sadness that I am leaving.  I take the sadness at my leaving to be a good sign that they like me and the ministry I do.  Of course, there may be people who are looking forward to a new priest.  That’s fine.  We each have our likes and dislikes.

If you are a regular reader of my blog, you probably have seen the comments from a few parishioners of Immaculate Conception welcoming me.  I have also received a couple of emails welcoming me.

I continue to be excited about becoming the pastor there.  I hope it is because it is what God asks of me and not pride.  When people ask if I am excited or nervous, I respond that I am excited 95% of the time and the remaining 5% I wonder if I am up to the task before me.  As long as it is God’s will, God will give me the gifts to do what he asks of me.  Of course, it will be essential for me to listen to the staff, Parish Council, Finance Council, and other committees, and the parishioners in general to discern what the needs of the parish are and how God calls me to lead.  Listening to others and working in a collaborative way with staff and parishioners will be essential but I take the responsibility and authority as pastor very seriously.  In the end, when difficult decisions need to be made, it will be my responsibility, with God’s grace.

Of course, the transfer date is still just over two months away.  For now, I still have ministry to do at Our Lady of the Lakes while preparing to transition to Immaculate.  I intend to remain faithful to my commitments here.

Change isn’t always easy but when the change is God’s will and we open ourselves to God’s will, we are in good hands.

Peace,

Fr. Jeff

More on Religious Liberty

The news has been covering the continuing controversy over the issue of religious liberty as it pertains to the new rules issued by the Federal Department of Health & Human Services requiring insurance to cover contraceptives.  Our bishops have been attempting to dialogue with our government on this issue.  It should be made clear that our bishops are not lobbying to make contraception illegal.  They simply ask that religious organizations (with a much broader definition of religious organization than set by the government) not be mandated to provide coverage for anything that violates the religious beliefs of the organization.

This is certainly an important issue but there are other areas where religious liberty is being threatened.  With this in mind, the United States Bishops have issued a new document entitled Our First, Most Cherished Liberty: A Statement on Religious Liberty on April 12, 2012.  It is only about thirteen pages.  I encourage you to read it and think about what religious liberty means today.

On page 11 of the document, they call for a special time of prayer and focus from the evening of June 21st to July 4th to focus on religious liberty.  July 4th is, of course, the founding of our country with the signing of the Declaration of Independence.  The Declaration recognizes the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.  It also sees these rights as coming from God.

June 22nd is the Feast of St. Thomas More and St. John Fisher who were martyred because they followed their faith over their country.  During this time period we will also celebrate a feast of John the Baptist on June 24th who was beheaded because he held to his faith.  On June 30th, we will celebrate the first Roman Martyrs.  All these people died standing up for their faith.  Do we have the courage to stand up for our faith?

Peace,

Fr. Jeff

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Now What?

Easter Sunday was four days ago.  For many, life has already gone back to exactly whatever it was before.  Life goes on without change.

First, let me say that Easter is not over.  For Catholics, Easter is not a single day.  I began by saying “Easter Sunday was four days ago.”  I emphasis the Sunday because we celebrate Easter for 50 days until Pentecost.  Even more so, we are still in the octave of Easter.  “Octave” refers to eight days.  The Octave begins with Easter Sunday and continues until this coming Sunday (April 15th).    During the octave the Gloria is said even at Daily Mass as we celebrate the Resurrection.  Easter (seeing the Triduum as one event) is the most important time of the year.  It deserves not just a day but a season.  The Crucifixion and Resurrection are crucial to understanding our Catholic faith.

From the Crucifixion and Resurrection comes hopeHope that comes knowing that Jesus died so that our sins might be forgiven.  Hope that comes from knowing of the Resurrection to see that there is much more to life than what we know in this world.

What strikes you during this Easter Season?  For me, two things come to mind.  First, during the readings at the Easter Vigil I became very much aware of how God was present to all his people in the events from Salvation History that we heard in the readings.  It wasn’t any one reading.  (See my homily from the Easter Vigil).

The other moment of grace was celebrating the Sacraments with our RCIA participants that I had been working with over the last few months.  It was my privilege to preside as two were baptized, one received into the Church, and two completing their sacraments.  Our faith is not a dead faith.  It still speaks everyday to what is going on in our lives.

What difference does faith make in your life?  It might be a particular moment of grace during Lent, the Triduum, or Easter.  Has your life been changed by your faith?  Sometimes the change happens quickly and sometimes we barely notice any change because it happens over months or years.

Faith is not static.  We are called to deepen our relationship with Jesus throughout our entire lives.  Open your hearts and turn them over to Jesus.

Peace,

Fr. Jeff

 

Jesus Christ is Risen Today

It is mid-afternoon on Easter Sunday.  Over the last three days, we have celebrated Holy Thursday where Jesus celebrated the First Eucharist and calls us to do the same.  On Good Friday, we celebrated the Crucifixion but we can only celebrate the Crucifixion in light of the Resurrection.  Each time we celebrate the Eucharist, we celebrate Jesus’ sacrificing of his life for us but again, we can only celebrate in light of the Resurrection.

Here is my homily for the Easter Vigil.

Peace,

Fr. Jeff

Easter Vigil, Year B – April 7, 2012
Genesis 1:1-2:2
Genesis 22:1-18
Exodus 14:15-15:1
Isaiah 54:5-14
Isaiah 55:1-11
Ezekiel 36:16-17a, 18-28
Romans 6:3-11
Mark 16:1-7

Our celebration began in the dark outside with the Blessing of the Easter Fire.  Then, we blessed and lit the Paschal Candle and entered into the church.  As we move into the church, we are carrying candles which we lit from the Paschal Candle.  All this reminds us how Jesus brought light to the world.

We have just heard eight readings.  Why do listen to so many readings?  These are not just a bunch of isolated stories.  They serve a purpose to tell us how God has been present to his people since the beginning of time.  It is the story of Salvation History.  There was never a time when God did not exist and God is the creator of all and so all belongs to him.  A literal interpretation of our first reading from the first creation story in Genesis might be taken as an attempt to explain how God created us.  The point is not how.  The point is that God is creator of all.  God is the one who brings order to all.  In that order, God has created us in his image and given us dominion over the world.

Our second reading is familiar to many as the story of God telling Abraham to sacrifice his son.  If this is all we hear, then it seems impossible.  Why do we listen to this story?  Because it tells us of how much Abraham trusted in God.  Because Abraham trusted in God, he was richly blessed.  Abraham serves as an example of faith and trust in God to us.

Our reading from Exodus tells of a pivotal moment in Salvation History.  God was leading his people out of Egypt.  The Egyptians were chasing them down.  It seemed like they would not be freed after all but then God saved them in a way that only God could, by parting the Red Sea.  Note that the pivotal event involved crossing through the waters to a new life.

Our readings from Isaiah come from the time around the end of the Babylonian Exile.  When they were defeated and many were taken into exile, they felt God had abandoned them.  But then, in his mercy (the mercy we count on) he takes them back.

This is an important part of Salvation History – the Israelites sin and God forgives.  What is the price of God’s forgiveness?  Well, God invites them to “come, without paying, and without cost.”

God’s forgiveness is a gift.  There is nothing we can do to earn it.  It is God’s to give but to open ourselves to that gift, we must acknowledge our sins and seek to do better.      We must also believe in Jesus and that he died and rose for us.  In our humanness, it can be difficult to understand how Jesus’ death on a Cross can be for the forgiveness of our sins.       But we don’t have to understand.  We just have to believe.  We just need to believe in what God has written in our hearts in the new covenant, the covenant formed in baptism through Jesus.

Remember before when I pointed out how the Israelites entered into new life by crossing the waters of the Red Sea?  It is through the waters of baptism that we enter into new life in Christ.  In a few minutes we will celebrate the baptism of Olivia and Stephen.  We will receive Heather into the Catholic Church, and Anthony and Steven will complete their sacraments.  Tonight is a major event in their lives.

What they do tonight, we have already done in some way.  After Olivia and Stephen are baptized, we will all renew our baptismal promises.      We do this acknowledging that we are not perfect, that we are all in need of constant renewal and forgiveness.  Our celebrations of the last couple of days remind us of that.  Thursday night we celebrated the Mass of the Lord’s Supper, the gift of the Eucharist where we are constantly renewed in God’s grace.  Yesterday, we celebrated the Passion of Jesus, believing that our sins are indeed forgiven through Jesus death on a Cross.      Jesus’ Crucifixion can only be understood by what we just heard in the gospel.  After Jesus’ death, his body was laid in the tomb.      But the women have just found the tomb empty.

When we hear that the tomb is empty, we rejoice because we know that Jesus is risen.  But we must realize it wasn’t so clear for the women.  In fact, if you read the line that follows this gospel passage, we are told that the women were afraid.  They didn’t know why the tomb was empty.  They did not yet understand.

Ultimately, the Risen Jesus appears to them so that they might believe in the Resurrection and eternal life.      This changes our whole view of the world.  Things of this world don’t seem so important when we believe in the gift of eternal life.  We can’t always understand what eternal life is but we can believe.  In our belief, we have hope and that hope changes everything.

With this in mind, we have some sacraments to celebrate so let us continue by first calling up Olivia and Stephen with their godparents so that we help them cross the waters.

 

Chrism Mass

I attended our Chrism Mass last night at the Cathedral.  For anyone who is unfamiliar with the Chrism Mass, it is a diocesan celebration that always occurs during Holy Week.  It is a Mass so there is the celebration of the Eucharist which is the “Source and Summit of the Catholic Church.”

Two other principal things happen at the Chrism Mass.  First, the priests gather with the bishop and renew their priestly promises.  Ultimately, everything we do as priests flows from God but in renewing our priestly promises, we show our resolve to serve according to God’s will.

The second thing is the blessing of the oils that will be used in the parishes throughout the diocese.  The bishop blesses the oils which are taken back to each parish for the celebration of the sacraments for the coming year.

Both of these are important events in their own rights.  Part of what I like in the Chrism Mass is the sign of unity it provides.  Parishioners and clergy from across the diocese gather together for this celebration.  The priests coming together and the oils going out to the parishes are a sign of unity to me.  We are not a bunch of individual churches, each in our own towns.  We are one church, united in faith.

May God bring us together in unity to follow His Will in all things.

Peace,

Fr. Jeff